Emotional Abuse … ‘silent abuse’ (PART 1)

Emotional abuse… where do I even start…. I sit here and think about abuse in general. Physical, Emotional, social, financial and sexual abuse. And I wonder what a life would be like to not have experienced any of them. Personally I think it’s doubtful that there would be many people that haven’t experienced some form […]

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Justice?…..

I always find myself wondering how I got here. Is it bad luck, bad choices, karma from another life? And in some ways it doesn’t really matter, but for a big part it does. Because if anyone can learn from my life, my pain and my experiences, then it makes my pain a little less and my purpose […]

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Offline, for now.

To all my Followers, Readers, Supporters and fellow Victims. It is with a lot of sadness and frustration that I must inform you all that I am having to temporarily take my blog down. As you will know after reading my posts, I am a victim of domestic violence. Currently, my case remains high risk and […]

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Leaving, and the truth

Brave? Strong? How does someone be defined as this? People keep telling me “You’re so brave you got out. You’re so strong!” Every time I am told this it stops me in my tracks. Because the truth is, I didn’t leave because I was strong and brave. I left because I was scared. Scared for […]

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Manipulation

Manipulation is a powerful and cruel means to have your way over someone. It takes a selfish, heartless human to think they have the right and self-worth to influence ones thoughts and actions to get what they want. To lie to another’s face, put down and guilt another to lift yourself up and to have […]

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How did we get here?

  So let’s go back to when I was 16 almost 17, because this is what I’m going to call the beginning when I first got on that roller-coaster I was talking about. I lived at home with my parents and my three siblings, I was in year 10 at school and I hated it! […]

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This is me

This is me… Tarah Jayne Preston also known as Tarah James but lets not get into that story yet. I am the 3rd born of 4, a prodigy of two loving parents that were one; until they divorced when I was 22. A hard working family that had their own faults, fails and heartbreaks. As […]

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